Memorial Day 2013

What does it mean to you? Do you look at Memorial Day Weekend as a weekend to play, shop and party? Do you take time out and pay respect to those who have lost their lives defending the freedom many take for granted?

Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States which occurs every year on the final Monday of May. This year it will be one week from today May 27th.

Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men and women who died while serving in our Armed Forces.

As a veteran who volunteered for both Korea and Vietnam it does not take a holiday for me to remember those who have died serving our country. Every morning when I wake, I thank GOD for giving me the day and say a prayer for those who never made it back. Their sacrifice will never be forgotten.

Memorial Day, formerly known as Decoration Day, originated after the Civil War to honor the Union and Confederate soldiers who died in the Civil War. By the 20th century Memorial Day had been extended to honor all Americans who have died while in the military service.

Memorial Day should not to be confused with Veterans Day; Memorial Day is a day of remembering the men and women who died while serving, while Veterans Day celebrates the service of all U.S. military veterans, living or dead.

On this Memorial Day before you journey out to play shop or party say a little prayer for all those who lost their lives defending all the freedoms and liberties you have.  Imagine where you would be today if they did not join to defend our Constitution?

For those who have and are serving our Country; “THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE”.

For those who have and do support us; “THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT”.

For those who have lost a loved one defending our nation; “You are always in my Prayers”.

Last but not least let us not forget the wives, husbands, children, mothers, fathers, siblings, friends, battle buddies and sweethearts that have been left behind.  Theirs is a greater sacrifice many of us will never know so if you can, please support a T.A.P.S (Tragedy Assistance Program For Survivors) which has been caring for families of America’s fallen Heroes since 1994.  They are the only non-profit Veterans Service Organization chartered solely to assist the surviving loved ones of military members who has died while serving our nation. Click here to read about T.A.P.S and to make a donation.

GOD BLESS you, your family and the United States of America.

It doesn’t take much to help someone.

What have you done this week to help someone? Oh I know you are so busy you don’t know the time of day.  Too bad you will not know the joy one receives when you help someone. This week has been a good one for me. I mowed a neighbor’s lawn since she is ill and after I did it wished her a Happy Mother’s Day. Spoke with a few of the neighbors and we are going to take turns keeping her yard mowed. I have been helping a friend clean his house and do some major repairs. He has a disability and cannot do the work himself so I figure we have about four weeks (3/4 days a week 6 hours a day) to get the house in order. He wants to finish his basement so he can put up his old train set and that we will do in the fall.

What have you done? Have you held the door open for someone or just let it slam into them, said thank you with a smile to the person who gave you your coffee this morning? Called the waiter or waitress by their name with a smile on your face when you placed your order or paid your bill? Did you tell someone to have a nice day? Have you called a family member to say HI I was just thinking of you and wanted to let you know I love you? WOW, that might give someone a heart attack. Are we so caught up in our own little word to notice the real world around us? Stop and smell the roses. You just might make yourself fell a little better today. How about saying to a co-worker who is having a rough day “If you want to go for coffee and chat” and do yourself a favor and buy the coffee.

The other day I wrote about my two daughters. Two entirely different individuals who want to make the world a better place for all to live in and are doing something about it. I wrote about my oldest quest to help Title 1 Students in NYC by being a mentor and starting a project called “The Next Move”.  Since I wrote she has received financial contributions to the tune of $360. Her goal is $5,000 by June 25th. Her goal can be accomplished if 1,000 people gave $5 each or if 500 gave $10 or 50 gave a $100. Last year was her first year as a mentor and was so impressed with her mentee she went out and bought all the stuff herself and held a party for the girl where her friends came and donated items. She saw the need and opened The Next Move to help more Title 1 students. If you could donate even $5 your contribution will be greatly appreciated.  I am a believer of $5, $10 contributions. I believe if I have say $100 to donate and there are a few worthy causes who are looking for support I will divide it between the few instead of one or two. I am reposting her email to me which includes a bio about David, the student they have selected to help this year.

If you do decide to make a contribution, any amount helps, “Thank You For Your Support”

I said a prayer for you today. May GOD BLESS you and your family.

 

Created by Lori Dooley on May 13, 2013

Hi! 

 

I’ve started a program called The Next Move (http://www.gofundme.com/2wov5s), which I’ve told a lot of you about, inspired by a former mentee of mine who never stopped trying. Her efforts got her to high school graduation, where she was the first to receive a high school diploma in her family, and then acceptance into the University of Bridgeport for Criminal Justice. She struggled with financial obstacles just to get to college so I was inspired to supplement all her hard work with the bed set, computer, paper and so on, that she would need once she got there. To some, this may be seen as a small effort on my side, but it meant so much to her.

The Next Move was born out of that and our goal is to provide every student in a New York City Title I school who is accepted into an accredited university outside of the greater New York City area with a gift containing all the supplies needed to go off, prepared to school.

No child should be left behind, but many Title I students who have worked hard through high school to graduate (many the first high school graduates in their families) and get accepted into an accredited university, are. Many times their families don’t encourage them to keep going, or to simply don’t have the resources to get to the next step (i.e. college). The ultimate goal of The Next Move is to ensure that there won’t be a single student in this position, who won’t get that chance for success. 

As we are just getting started, we’ve carefully selected one incredible student to help this year, David McCall, a student that learned the fundamentals of hard work through his passion for playing football. We are working to raise $5,000 by June 25th so if you can, please take a minute to donate (http://www.gofundme.com/2wov5s). He really has fought against all odds to get to where he is today, and is headed to college in the fall. Any contribution you could make would be greatly appreciated, and he will be so touched by the sheer fact that you believe in his next move.

And please spread the word! 


Thank you so much.

Lori
Founder of The Next Move

Meet David McCall What stands out about David is his determination. When David was a freshmen I remember I was filling in for a teacher who was absent. Usually when there is a sub or coverage by another teacher the students hardly give the substitute the time of day. David, however, was unique. He wasn’t interested in having his time wasted. He noticed that I was there and had provided meaningful work, deciding to go against the grain and ask for help with the article I had asked the class to read. From that moment I felt a special kinship with David though I didn’t have David in my class until his junior year. I found that many teachers misunderstood David and took him for a student who didn’t care about his learning. However, I realized that when teachers took the time to show they cared about David and his success he really began to shine. In my English class David has struggled to pass the ELA Regent. He’s struggled to improve his writing as well as reading comprehension. The extraordinary thing is that he never gives up. With very clear feedback David has proven he can excel. He is a very bright student who makes thoughtful inferences about a text and has developed a strong voice in his writing as well. To his peers he is an inspiration because despite setbacks he continues to strive to succeed. He comes to school every day and he shows up to do his best, no matter what.

If you can help her with her quest to raise $5,000 for David by June 25th it would be greatly appreciated.

“Thank you for your support”

Have a Million Dollar Day!

 

Could you? Would you?

 

We all have the capability to do something however how many of us actually do? Could you, Yes? Would you, is up to you.

I am very proud of my two daughters. They both are trying to make our world a better place to live. My youngest is pursuing her Master’s Degree in sustainable energy. She works a regular 40 hour a week job and studies at night. Seven days a week while class is on. Five weeks on one week off for 18 months. She bought a fixer upper and continues to make improvements even while she has classes. Volunteers for building at habitat humanity and enjoys 5K’s for charities and local fund raisers. Is always there to help, educate or improve and is never afraid to show someone how to make their work easier and more productive.  Could you do it? Would you do it?

My oldest graduated from college with honors. She didn’t get it from me. She did it on her own by studying and working hard. Her grades got her college scholarships that helped her with her tuition. She does not let any grass grow under her feet. Loves work and takes pride in what she does. She has always believed if you reach for the moon you might land on a star. She takes pride in helping others succeed and takes the time to help those less fortunate than herself.  Last year she decided to become a mentor for a young girl in the Bronx and would leave work, go to the Bronx to mentor and then go back to the office and finish her work. She was working 18 hour days, mentoring, running marathons, relays and traveling. She enjoyed mentoring so much she decided to start a program called “The Next Move”. I am not going to tell you about “The Next Move”. Instead I am going to let her tell you about it and if you could help her with her quest she would appreciate it. I could write all day about my two daughters and how proud I am of them but they do not ask for recognition. They just love to help and the joy they see in the eyes of those they help is reward enough. There are times when that is not enough and financial help is required so if you can please do .Could you? Would you? It is up to you. I said a prayer for you today. May GOD BLESS you and your family.

Here is Lori’s story. Please take the time and read it. If you can help her “Thank You for Your Support”.

GOD BLESS!

Hi! 

 I’ve started a program called The Next Move (http://www.gofundme.com/2wov5s), which I’ve told a lot of you about, inspired by a former mentee of mine who never stopped trying. Her efforts got her to high school graduation, where she was the first to receive a high school diploma in her family, and then acceptance into the University of Bridgeport for Criminal Justice. She struggled with financial obstacles just to get to college so I was inspired to supplement all her hard work with the bed set, computer, paper and so on, that she would need once she got there. To some, this may be seen as a small effort on my side, but it meant so much to her.

The Next Move was born out of that and our goal is to provide every student in a New York City Title I school who is accepted into an accredited university outside of the greater New York City area with a gift containing all the supplies needed to go off, prepared to school.

No child should be left behind, but many Title I students who have worked hard through high school to graduate (many the first high school graduates in their families) and get accepted into an accredited university, are. Many times their families don’t encourage them to keep going, or to simply don’t have the resources to get to the next step (i.e. college). The ultimate goal of The Next Move is to ensure that there won’t be a single student in this position, who won’t get that chance for success. 

As we are just getting started, we’ve carefully selected one incredible student to help this year, David McCall, a student that learned the fundamentals of hard work through his passion for playing football. We are working to raise $5,000 by June 25th so if you can, please take a minute to donate (http://www.gofundme.com/2wov5s). He really has fought against all odds to get to where he is today, and is headed to college in the fall. Any contribution you could make would be greatly appreciated, and he will be so touched by the sheer fact that you believe in his next move.

And please spread the word! 

Two passengers overboard

I have done a fair amount of cruising and am having a difficult time trying to vision someone falling overboard by accident. Carnival Cruise Line is having a tough go this year and unfortunately what has been happening to them is hurting the industry as a whole. Carnival has had its issues however I feel this one should not be blamed on them. How someone falls overboard I do not know and don’t want to find out. My prayers are with the families of those two individuals and I pray they are found alive.  Carnival is not the only cruise line to have someone fall overboard and unfortunately this will not be the last.

Like any vacation being aware of your surroundings makes for an enjoyable one. Being responsible and acting responsibly also will make a vacation enjoyable. I am not saying you should not have fun and be adventurous; what I am saying is don’t do something you are not physically fit to do or over extend yourself to the point what you are doing could be dangerous to your health. Drink reasonably and enjoy the activities.

As I have written before Royal Caribbean is our cruise line choice. We are Crown and Anchor Members and have earned Emerald Class and after our next cruise will advance to Diamond Class. We are so looking forward to their new ship The Quantum of the Seas and will be booking shortly. We have many friends who prefer other lines such as Carnival, NCL, Princess and Holland America. All are members of their respective lines frequent cruiser programs and in time my wife and I will join them on their preferred lines. Many cruise on different lines at different times. We have some friends who cruise 3-4 times a year on various lines and are frequent cruiser members with each line. That is something I think I could get used too.

If you have ever thought of taking a cruise give it a try, you might find out you enjoy it. Better yet don’t go because the fewer people who cruise the better the deals. Shop around and after you book keep an eye on the price of the cruise you are taking. I book whenever we decide to go. I check the lines and the travel deals to see what is available and them I call my agent and tell her what I want. I also tell her what I have seen and the pricing and after I book I keep checking to see f the line is offering a special for less money (based on date, cabin class etc) and if lower I  call my agent who in turn contacts the line and I get the better rate. I have saved a few bucks over time by periodically (weekly) checking the lines website for deals. Also as a frequent cruiser with your select line you get discounts and upgrades as well.

Interested in taking a cruise? Here are a few of the most popular lines. I have included Carnival because they are still a contender in the industry: Royal Caribbean, Princess, NCL, Carnival and Holland America.

Our last cruise was with a group 40+ neighbors. It was great because we had a bus take us to the dock and pick us up. In addition we had room credit, a bottle of wine in our cabin waiting for us and a group cocktail party. Everyone picked their own cabin based on the price they could afford. It was great and to me the best way to travel. I will be talking with my Pastor to discuss organizing a cruise club. Oh and I now use a travel agent who keeps me informed of cruises she thinks we would be interested in.

We have sailed the Caribbean out of Ft Lauderdale, Cape Canaveral and New York (Cape Liberty, NJ) as well as to Canada out of Boston and Alaska to Vancouver out of Seward (this trip started in Fairbanks for the land excursion which I strongly recommend). I am always looking and planning for the next one.

You know if you are not into cruising and you want a great vacation check out our National Parks. We now do a park a year as well as a cruise a year.

Enjoy.

Love to Cruise

I often wonder what is going through the minds of all the CEO’s of all the cruise lines because of all the bad publicity Carnival Cruise Line is receiving lately. Carnival, which I have never cruised on (we prefer and cruise exclusively on Royal Caribbean), is offering a deal and it is a deal at $38 a night per person. Granted Carnival is having a tough time with all the bad publicity about its ships having problems and I do look at the reports however as bad as it looks cruising, to me, it is still a great deal. The deal is/was for an inside cabin and for double occupancy. I read an article where it said cheaper than a Motel 6 room and as someone pointed out the Motel 6 room was per room not per person however on the cruise ship all your food is covered as well as the shows and other activities so it is a good deal. Two people couldn’t eat all day as much as they want and see a show a night for $38. One other thing is you do/should pay the gratitude’s for the cabin steward and waiting staff. Ours on Royal Caribbean have been top notch and do a fabulous job. I/we have been spoiled on Royal Caribbean by our steward and dining room staff as well as the waiters and waitresses in the different venues and basically every one of the staff on board. I don’t know what it is like with other lines but on RCL Royal Caribbean it has always been excellent. We have no complaints being pampered by the staff and we do give a little more than recommended because they deserve and earn every penny they make.  We cruise on Royal Caribbean and have since we started cruising in 2007. I can still remember when I got hooked on cruising. It was when I was walking onto the ship for the first time. I was a little apprehensive since 1) I am not a water person and 2) I hate heights. Well as I was walking over the gangplank boarding the ship, The Enchantment of the Seas on deck five I was blown away with how beautiful and large the atrium was. Our cabin was on deck three in the middle of the ship. We had an ocean view and although the cabin was small (about 151 sq ft) it did not seem small. Bathroom was adequate and we had a lot of space for cloths. The window looking out was nice and big. I could look out it all day and not feel confining. Our first cruise was for five days and how I did not want to get off at the end. We have been on a cruise every year since. Our first three were on the Enchantment out of Ft Lauderdale, The Serenade out of San Juan and the Jewel out of Boston. All of these cruises were in a cabin with a window on deck three. We moved up to a larger cabin with a balcony on deck seven when we went on the Independence out of Ft Lauderdale , The Freedom out of Cape Canaveral, The Radiance out of Seward and The Explorer out of Cape Liberty. Our next cruise isn’t planned yet however we did do an onboard undecided next cruise booking for the perks and we are going to upgrade to a larger junior suite probably on deck ten for the next one. We and everyone in our family joined the Crown and Anchor Club because of the perks and let me tell you they are great. We board quicker and depart easier. There are additional perks on board that we enjoy and our coupon book helps us save good money. Each membership class has a book and the benefits only increase as you progress up the ladder.  We are Emerald and after our next cruise should go to Diamond. I am really looking forward to that. The onboard cocktail parties are a great member benefit. The members are so friendly and you pick up a lot of useful information at them. I am hoping that we will take at least two cruises a year after we retire. To me there are many excellent reasons to cruise. I like to read and can do so any time of the day. When we are at sea I like to sit on the balcony (weather permitting) with a nice book and soak in the beauty around us. We do some of the daily activities and enjoy a nice mile or two walk around the upper deck. The gym is well equipped and the view doesn’t get any better than looking out towards the bow of the ship. The food is excellent and there are so many venues to select from. There are specialty restaurants that cost a few extra dollars that provide a little more ambiance and believe me when I say they are well worth the money. The shows are fabulous and don’t cost you a dime. We are not gamblers however I do bring my roll of quarters with me for a chance at the big one. I am thinking of trying the roulette table on our next cruise. The clubs are fun and the staff excellent. The on board activities are so numerous there is never enough time to cover them all. If you get bored on board the ship it is your own fault because there is so much to do. Every night your steward puts on your bed the next day’s activities sheets. I say sheets because of all the activities going on. The excursions for the ports of call are so numerous there are activities for almost anyone. We prefer to book onboard because if there is a delay in getting back to the ship they wait for you where if you book by yourself at the port you could be out of luck. Also the cost is usually the same and the staff at the booking desk is very knowledgeable. Our last cruise was for nine days and we are wondering if we could stand doing two weeks. We are thinking of doing the Panama Canal which is usually 13-15 nights. Our concern is we would leave from Ft Lauderdale or San Diego and cruise to the other port so flying will be involved. We will need to decide if we want to leave from San Diego the longer flight first and come home from Ft Lauderdale. Too bad they don’t leave from Boston or Cape Liberty to go through the Canal. Other possibilities are leaving from Cape Liberty and going to Bermuda, the Bahamas, Cape Canaveral and back. I would love to go back to Key West again on the ship however there are so few going there today. I enjoy RCL’s own island paradises at Coco Cay and Labadee. It would be nice if they did one that went to both on the same cruise doing say San Juan, St Thomas of St Maarten as other ports of call. OH San Juan I could go to 50’s fifty Cream for the best Gelato I have ever had. If you are ever in San Juan P.R. make sure you stop by 50’s fifty Cream at 252 Cristo Street, Old San Juan. You won’t be disappointed. Don’t believe me check them out on facebook. Our last cruise we did with a group of people who live in town. We had enough sign on each of us had a bottle of Champagne in our cabin and everyone had cruise added credits to spend on board and we had an hour long cocktail party for the group. There is so much you can do if you put a group together. Example we rented a bus that cost $42 a person round trip from Enfield CT to Cape Liberty NJ. Believe me it was well worth it and I did not have to drive the 3-4 hours each way. Sat back and read my book. Maybe someday I will try and put a trip together for subscribers to my blogs. That would be fun. We met another group from CT that had to rent 3 buses and another group who was going the trip as a fundraiser for their local non-profit. There are so many ways to have fun and save money. Give it a try. Maybe someday I will write a cruise critic blog. Now that would be fun. I could get into that. Back to reality. I am thinking Monday I will post about entitlements or at least the biggest and fattest one out there that Congress will not touch so I will see you all Monday. Have a Fabulous weekend and enjoy the weather if you can. I hope to be out working on my garden.

“May green be the grass you walk on.
May blue be the skies above you.
May pure be the joys that surround you.
May true be the hearts that love you.”

GOD BLESS.

Can you afford it?

Can you afford it?.

Can you afford it?

I just posted on helps2know about the rising cost of Long Term Care. I direct you an interesting article in LifeHealthPro  by Allison Bell: Glenworth LTC Costs Keep Rising. It is not going to get any cheaper so why wait act now.

Who’s Responsible?

I just posted about who’s responsible on helps2know. Interesting article by Jenny Gold Kaiser Health News about health exchanges. Check it out and please sign up for our rss feed. You can find it in the upper left corner. Thanks and have a great day.

What is your solution to our healthcare crisis?

Check it out at  Helps2Know and lets start working on having everyone in America covered with healthcare.

Check it out

I will be doing most of my writings at Helps2Know.com. Today’s blog was on “What do you pay for generic drugs. If you are looking to save some big bucks this article might help.

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Have a fabulous day and great weekend.

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